Craig William Von Bargen

Craig William Von Bargen, a dedicated husband, father, grandfather, and beloved music educator, passed away on Friday, September 26, 2025, at the age of 74. Born on February 6, 1951, in Brooklyn, New York, he spent his formative years in New Hyde Park. In 1980, he moved to Peconic, New York, where he built a beautiful life with his much adored wife, Penny, and where they raised their family.

For many years, Craig was a respected District Director of Music at Miller Place High School on Long Island. He inspired countless students and colleagues with his passion for the arts and his unwavering commitment to music education.

Beyond his career, Craig's life was defined by his loves. He was happiest surrounded by his loved ones, especially his wife, daughters, and as Pop-Pop to his granddaughters. He cherished a late afternoon at the beach, and had a lifelong passion for cars. At home, he kept busy with projects and was always the first to lend a hand to a neighbor or friend. His days reflected not just his passions, but his generosity of spirit and devotion to those he loved most.

He is survived by his loving wife, Penny Von Bargen (Schiell); his parents in-law Hank and Marion Schiell, his devoted daughters, Lauren Dahan (husband Charles) and Blair Mauri (husband Joe); his adoring granddaughters, Tessa Mauri and Sally Mauri; and his sister, Claire Harding (husband Gary Harding). Craig was preceded in death by his parents, Fredrick and Eva Von Bargen, and his cousin Joan Sinramm.

The family will receive friends on Friday, October 3rd from 1-4 P.M. at the DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Home in Southold.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital or sending a check to the Miller Place School District (7 Memorial Drive, Miller Place) in honor of the Craig Von Bargen music scholarship.

Messages of Sympathy

I was fortunate to be hired by and worked with Craig for many decades. His good natured disposition and very supportive nature reflected on his confidence, high skill level and happiness in his work and his life. I learned a great deal from him in very gentle and encouraging ways. It was those traits that made him so loved by his students and so successful at building a wonderful department. His retirement farewell tribute concert was second to none and reflected the admiration and love of his students and the high skill level he brought to the HS Music programs in Miller Place. I feel very lucky to have known him and called him a colleague and friend.\r\n\r\nOur hearts break for Penny and the girls. The loss to your family must be immense. Sending our Deepest Sympathies to the entire Von Bargen Family.\r\n\r\nSending Love and Prayers\r\nTerrie and Ed Troyano\r\n\r\n\r\n

by Terrie Troyano
2025-10-02 1:44:58 PM

Claire, Gary — sincere condolences for your profound and shocking loss. We will include Craig’s name in the Memorial Prayer at Shabbat Services, and will send a donation in his name. You and your family and friends are in our thoughts and hearts. ❤️🙏

by Rich Friedman
2025-10-02 6:50:05 PM